Writing Romance…

I adore romance. My adolescent years saw me curled up reading Mills and Boons. I swooned over the hero, the beauty that steals his heart, hated the obstacles in their way, longed to hear their confessions of love and felt sated when they lived happily ever after.

Of course I wasn’t surprised when I found myself drawn to writing fiction and in particular, romance where love is the order of the day. Yet it’s been a long and winding road getting here.

Writing is ingrained in me. It’s a medium I turn to when I can’t make sense of the emotional baggage life throws my way. It was my outlet when I loathed myself during my drinking days. It comforted me during recovery in sobriety. Today it’s helping me reach my dream one day at a time.

I’ve written countless short stories. I’m my biggest critic when it comes to sending work out for scrutiny, living in doubt of not being good enough. It takes courage to believe in your writing, to write everyday despite not everybody appreciating your work. I’ve finally come to a place where it’s okay if people don’t like what I write. What matters are the ones who do.

There’s so much to learn about writing that one gets caught in an abyss of information. I joined a Writing Circle a few years ago where I was challenged to write poems and fairy tales. I had no idea I could do this, yet I persevered and succeeded. It’s rewarding realising the untapped potential one has when stretched. But one can’t really be a pro juggling too many things at the same time.

Therefore I’ve dedicated this year to focusing on one objective. To write a romance novel. I’ve been to a Romance Writing Workshop in February where insight was given into the various imprints on offer. I had no idea of the vastness of the genre or the millions of dedicated readers waiting for fresh stories. I got a 101 on writing romance and set a deadline to get my first draft done.

I’m also part of the Romance Writers Chapter in Cape Town, a group of Authors living their dream writing romances. I actively participate in a small group of writers who task one another to produce stories. This year our aim is to write our novels simultaneously and to support each other during the process.

As much as I’m afraid of the unknown, of doubt setting in, of failing. I need to remind myself how far I’ve come already. This is my calling, it’s what I’ve been gearing for all my life and the time is now.



  1. What an inspiring post! You’ve come a long way with your writing, Sumi. Wishing you every success with your project. You will find those RomWri buddies a huge support as the process unfolds. Wishing you sparkling success!

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  2. Yes Luv, I must agree with Alison, you’ve come a long way in your writing and I can’t wait for your first novel to be done. It takes a lot of hard work, dedication, sacrifice and of course support from your fellow writers and family but you’re well on your way.
    Happy writing Luv 😘😘😘😘😘

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    1. Get ready for endless conversations on how tough writing is and being holed up in the study for hours on end, lol! But I know with the love and support of my family I can achieve my dream. I love you ❤


  3. Loved your post Sumi. I can so relate! From reading romance as a teenager to struggling with the self confidence it takes to put oneself “out there” for any and all to see/criticise. As long as we can support each of our fellow writers we’ll be just fine. Sending hugs, A xxx


    1. Thanks so much Angelé:-) All the Romance Writers have been so supportive and I’m so glad to be part of the Cape Town Chapter 🙂 All the best with your writing. Love always ❤


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